HUSBAND AND WIFE
Gentleness & Softness are always excellent.They bring about unity,love & peace.On the contrary,harshness brings about disunity & instability
For husband & wife to live in harmony, they must admire & be merciful to one another.Further, she must respect him, & he must be kind to her
Your husband deserves to be respected. Be obedient in good, polite, keep on smiling, take care of his desire & stomach & avoid suspicion
Your dearest wife deserves massive kindness. Be kind to her in everything: Feed her; cloth her; educate her; accommodate her; & pardon her.
this part is for you habibi Wife is neither a slave nor a housekeeper. She is ur companion that partakes in division of labour with U to establish an ideal family.
Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Kindness, fair hearing, forgiveness, justice & softness bring about stability & harmony in marital life
Wife is d shepherd of d household.Her responsibility is a huge one.She is an institution that produces all scholars & pious leaders globally
Are U looking for a faultless wife? A wife that can't offend U at all? If yes, then no one in this world,but rather in Paradise. Be kind pls
As part of kindness, if the wife asks her husband for allowances for breastfeeding her children from him, then he should try to pay her, Evidence of allowances for breastfeeding. Almighty says: Then if they give suck to the children for U, give them their due payment. Q65:6
The Prophet 1…3 would say, "The best among u is he who is kindest to his wife & I m kindest to my wife". No so-called Feminism can beat this.
As wife, your husband is neither a messenger nor an aide. He deserves ur massive respect for his spending etc. Imagine ur life without him?
The attitude of "I am always right" by both husband & wife, brings about chaos & pandemonium in marital life. No one of U is infallible, pls
Both husband & wife must be convinced that to err is human. They must be ready to serve as a mirror to one another. Accept when corrected.
Wives naturally, like to be praised for, their adornment, marital r/ship & cooking. Always remember to say to her "U are superb & Unique"
Satan tries to be a stakeholder in our marital life. If one spouse is ANGRY, d other must not be ANGRY. Otherwise, Satan has defeated both
Husband & wife should try to be talking to one another with a Smiling Face.It is an act of Ibadah,romantic & could lower stress level. Smile
Marital life is a source of tranquillity & peace. It is also d best pleasure of this world. Married couple should always try to achieve that
RIGHTEOUS! Whomever is blessed with a righteous wife, completed half of his religion, so let him fear Almighty with regard to d other half
Always say to your wife: If U see me angry, calm me down,& if I see U angry I will calm U down, otherwise we can't live together honourably
For a successful marriage, married couple are urged to control their tongues, & avoid foul speaking by using them freely against each other
Harsh tongue & aggressive tone will not change ur spouse- wife or husband. Rather, U should use kind & gentle words, which is act of charity
Husband & Wife should try to keep their secret, confidential. It must remain within their boundaries. It should not be exposed to outsiders
D best solution for any marital problem is through ENDURANCE & GENTLENESS. Words & Decisions taken in ANGER & HIGH EMOTIONS are rash & wrong
Unsolicited & unexpected gift strengthens LOVE & MERCY btw married couple.Try to surprise ur wife/husband, from time to time with nice gifts
Married couple should avoid undermining d roles of each other in building the family. D roles of each can't be played by d other effectively
For married couple, there must be moments of happiness & sadness.For happiness both should be grateful, while for sadness, be patient & pray
Dr IsaPantami
